During my modeling years, I had so many
encounters with male celebrities who saw models as easy women they could play
around with whenever they wanted. I had some of them ask me to 'make their
beds' because “we happen to be on the same
team, and as a model, this shouldn’t be difficult.”
I never failed to tell them how disgusted I
was with their words, but were they to be blamed? Whenever we had traveled or
hosted huge names from neighboring countries, our managers had always asked us
to “be nice to them”. And girls who
weren’t ‘nice’ would end up ‘staying
at the bottom’ of their careers.
Before I quit modeling, I met this man who
wanted me, and some friends to star in his video. We were to meet the team a
day before to get acquainted. He picked me up (I met him through a mutual
friend, and my friend brought him to my house), but instead of taking me
straight to the team, he asked that I help him choose some clothes and shoes
from a shop to which I obliged.
While picking out the clothes, he kept
talking about his personal life—which I thought was too much information as we
had just met. Getting a little edgy, I asked him when exactly we were going to
meet the rest of the team. He not only asked me to be patient, but also made
passing comments about my physique and how I was his kind of girl.
When he finally decided on the clothes he
wanted, he asked that we make a quick stop at his sister’s house. We got to the house, and as I was about getting out of the car, he tried
to kiss me. I withdrew and said “No, I
don’t roll like that”. It started raining heavily and there was no option
than to run into the house for shelter.
Inside, there were a couple of other guys
playing games, and a lady in the kitchen. I then told him I had to use the
bathroom. He showed me into a bedroom almost at the back of the house. When I
got out of the bathroom, he was there, seated on the bed. A bit taken aback, I
walked towards the door, and turned the knob only to discover it was locked.
I panicked, but managed to find my voice and
told him “I’d like to go to the sitting
area”. His response was “We are fine
in here”. Truth stared at me in the face; he had locked the door and stashed
the key somewhere. To make matters worse, the rain was so heavy and loud that we
could barely hear each other. Fear gripped me; obviously from the thought that
no one would hear me that easily even if I made so much noise.
I stood grounded by the door. He asked me to
join him on the bed. “I’m good
exactly where I am”, I replied. After a while he got up, came to me by the door and
asked me to sit down. I declined. He then dragged me to the bed, and asked that
I give him a blowjob. I told him I wasn’t interested and that he should let me
go, but he still insisted and ‘touched’ me. I hit his hand and stood up.
“Please
give me the keys to the door”. He said he was horny and needed to cum. He
pulled out his manhood, and asked me to “come
get it”. It was sickening, but I still held my grounds. Then he stood up,
walked towards me, held my hands and said I was not going to leave the room
until he ejaculated. He said if I didn’t want to give him a blowjob, then I should
give him a handjob, and that “it would be
over in a second”.
It was the vilest minutes of my life handling the genitals of this despicable man against my will, just so I could get my freedom.
It was the vilest minutes of my life handling the genitals of this despicable man against my will, just so I could get my freedom.
What met me at the sitting area after was
shame and humiliation. His friends or whoever they were, just sat there looking
at me with a silly grin on their faces. I had to endure the longest 30 minutes
of my life, waiting for the rains to stop before I scurried home, never to
return to the industry.
About the Author:
Just call me Chantelle, and I’m from somewhere in Africa.
Hugs to you, Chantelle. Hugs to you!
ReplyDeleteThanks Amma for passing by again. We're pretty sure Chantelle hugs right back!
DeleteThis made me ashamed of being a man. What nonsense.
ReplyDeleteIt's good to know there are still good men out there who don't condone wrong. Thanks for passing by Oghenerunor.
DeleteRegards,
Sista
Wow!! The number of times I've seen such scenarios in movies and said to myself that I will never budge under such circumstances. Easier said than done I guess.
ReplyDeleteYes Ms. Sometimes we never really know how we will behave until we are faced with certain situations. It is only then we realize what we are up against.
DeleteThanks for passing by. Do stick around
Regards,
Sista
This is so heartbreaking. I really did not expect this ending, so sorry for her experience. Some men!!! It can be so hard being a woman sometimes...
ReplyDeleteYes it can Sinawo; the things we've got to deal with... It is indeed heartbreaking. So sad Chantelle had to give up her dreams because of this man. Unfortunate.
DeleteRegards,
Sista
and my skin crawled! i sometimes wonder what happens to these men. do they find the next victim? do they finally meet their match? do they change? hmmph!
ReplyDeleteI wish I knew Loretta. I wish I knew.
DeleteBecause they are a bit famous, they think they are entitled to whatever they want which is so wrong.
Regards,
Sista