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I am 40 years old, I promise you! Well yes I have only literally lived for a quarter of a century but I swear, I am 40. Or more. I say this because some of the time, or a lot of the time I feel like I have seen too much for my age. More recently I have learned that our experiences lead us somewhere good when we let them. I have seen mine do just that and it makes me thankful, not to say to have experienced them was a good thing, but that it turned out alright after all. I wouldn’t wish that any woman goes through even a hair’s breadth of it. I seem not be clear about exactly what this is about right? I know, I actually have so much in my head right now I probably have to slow down and take them one after the other, and so I’d do just that. This is only part one.    I am writing this about women, but I’d wish for everyone, irrespective of gender, to read because it is so important, I believe. It is the matter of coercion. From what it entails (its definition) to how we percei

The woman who asks for nothing deserves everything. Well, yes! Totally true with Disney princesses but wait, Cinderella asked to go to the ball, right?  This quote used to be one of my favorites until recently when I came to understand that “The woman who asks for nothing receives nothing!” Now let’s establish a point here. Women must understand that in a relationship, the boyfriend is not a personal bank account. Some women go as far as dumping all their financial snags on the man; money for wigs, money for shoes, money for lingerie, money to fix a broken nail, money to fix a torn slipper. Hello? Whatever happened to your dad?  A woman can earn too, and in fact she must! If you ask me, it’s a great achievement to be able to open up my purse, smell my hard earned ‘cash’ and spend it on me. Yes I earned it!  Now let’s not get too excited here, there’s a second part. Men, the fact that your woman’s keeping her sh*t together, doesn’t mean you should turn a blin